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   The 1st Secret - The Power Of Thought.

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   Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we

   think about. Loving thoughts create loving

   experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations

   can change our beliefs and thoughts about others

   and ourselves. If we want to love someone, we need

   to consider their needs and desires. Thinking

   about your ideal partner will help you recognize

   her when you meet her.

 

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   The 2nd Secret - The Power Of Respect.

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   You cannot love anyone or anything unless you

   first respect them. The first person you need to

   respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect

   asks yourself, "What do I respect about myself?"

   To gain respect for others, even those

   you may dislike, ask yourself

   "What do I respect about them?"

 

 

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   The 3rd Secret - The Power Of Giving.

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   If you want to receive love, all you have to do is

   give it! The more love you give, the more you will

   receive. To love is to give of yourself freely and

   unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness.

   Before committing to a relationship ask not what

   the other person will be able to give to you, but

   rather what will you be able to give them. The

   secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving

   relationship is to always focus on what you can

   give instead of what you can take.

 

 

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  The 4th Secret - The Power Of Friendship.

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   To find a true love, you must first find a true

   friend. Love does not consist of gazing into each

   other's eyes, but rather looking outward together

   in the same direction. To love someone completely

   you must love them for who they are, not what they

   look like. Friendship is the soil through which

   love's seeds grow. If you want to bring love into

   a relationship, you must first bring friendship.

 

 

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   The 5th Secret - The Power Of Touch.

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   Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of

   love, breaking down barriers and bonding

   relationships. Touch changes our physical and

   emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.

 

 

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   The 6th Secret - The Power Of Letting Go.

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   If you love something, let it free. If it comes

   back to you it's yours, if it doesn't, it never

   was. Even in a loving relationship, people need

   their own space. If we want to learn to love, we

   must first learn to forgive and let go of past

   hurts and grievances. Love means letting go of our

   fears, prejudices, egos and conditions. "Today I

   let go of all my fears, the past has no power over

   me - today is the beginning of a new life."

 

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  The 7th Secret - The Power Of Communication.

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   When we learn to communicate openly and honestly,

   life changes. To love someone is to communicate

   with them. Let the people you love know that you

   love them and appreciate them. Never be afraid to

   say those three magic words: "I Love You." Never

   let an opportunity pass to praise someone. Always

   leave someone you love with a loving word it

   could be the last time you see them. If you were

   about to die but could make telephone calls to the

   people you loved, who would you call, what would

   you say and ...why are you waiting?

 

 

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   The 8th Secret - The Power Of Commitment.

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   If you want to have love in abundance, you must be

   committed to it, and that commitment will be

   reflected in your thoughts and actions. Commitment

   is the true test of love. If you want to have

   loving relationships, you must be committed to

   loving relationships. When you are committed to

   someone or something, quitting is never an option.

   Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship

   from a strong one.

 

 

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   The 9th Secret - The Power Of Passion.

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   Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting

   passion does not come through physical attraction

   alone; it comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm,

   interest and excitement. Passion can be recreated

   by recreating past experiences when you felt

   passionate. Spontaneity and surprises produce

   passion. The essence of love and happiness are the

   same; all we need to do is to live each day with

   passion.

 

 

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   The 10th Secret - The Power Of Trust.

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   Trust is essential in all loving relationships.

   Without it one person becomes suspicious, anxious

   and fearful and the other person feels trapped and

   emotionally suffocated. You cannot love someone

   completely unless you trust them completely. Act

   as if your relationship with the person you love

   will never end. One of the ways you can tell

   whether a person is right for you is to ask

   yourself, "Do I trust them completely and

   unreservedly?" If the answer is "no", think

   carefully before making a commitment.